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When I've been spending time with someone new, and I wonder how things are shaping up, I have a tendency to take the nuances of people I used to know, and use that old information to fill in the gaps. It would be better to wait patiently for more information than to assume I can guess what's going on.

This is especially dangerous when the people I used to know had problems, which only became obvious later, and had no clear warning signs. It makes me jump at shadows.

I should be patient. But in the meantime, what do I do with this damned feeling like something isn't adding up? A feeling I inherited from a previous relationship?

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[mirabilevisu.livejournal.com]

listen to your heart

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It's going
Thumpa thumpa thumpa thumpa thumpa

;)

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Oh hey, actually this reminds me,

I figure that if you can do it, I can do it...

So I've taken "the pledge" just like you have ;) We'll see how long it lasts, before I explode in an orgy of self-gratification.

[ex-zeugma416.livejournal.com]

Last time I tried that (recently), it lasted less than a week. I have absolutely zero impulse control.

Of course, the fact that I work at a college might have something to do with this ... overstimulated all the time, too many young women with really nice, artfully-displayed breasts and butts (and backs and stomachs and legs, OH MY GOD) walking past me all day long.

Drives me crazy sometimes.

Heh.

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Oh shit yeah, no kidding, brother. This would be impossible if I was still hanging around UCSC. Nay, beyond impossible, it would be pointless torture.

It's quite discouraging, being totally focused on The Hack, headphones on, paper out, full serious intent and determination, when you look up and all you can think of for the next 45 seconds is rolling the pants down that young woman's ass like peeling bananas, and planting your face right in her crotch. What are those bananas for, if not that?! Here they are! RIPE FRUIT, PEEL US, WE'RE ALL READY FOR PLANTING

arrgh

Terrible :)