Your candor is refreshing. I share similar sentiments and also require preciseness of language and sometimes the revisiting of the past because I need wholeness and closure - otherwise the wound can't heal. I don't know if I need as much work from the other person to get over things. Authentic apologies go far for me. However, I think I am pretty neurotic and high maintenance and don't trust as easily as I could, probably because I got picked on so much as a kid.
Anyway, you're not alone. And I like your company.
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Date: 2016-10-06 04:08 am (UTC)Anyway, you're not alone. And I like your company.